I still remember when a former 'student' named David reached out to me via email. It had been a few years since we were in touch, so he started with "I'm not sure if you remember me..."
Much to David's surprise, not only did I remember him, I even remembered exactly where he sat in the room!
I recall because of his demeanour.
You see, it was my first workshop as Soapbox Presentations. And even though no one could tell, I was incredibly nervous at the time, especially at the start. I had no idea how things would go or how I would be received.
I'm guessing you've felt like that before.
So imagine how I felt every time I'd glance at David, front right of the room, always attentive and smiling. It was reassuring and energising, which helped me do a better job.
In every presentation or training I deliver, there are people in the crowd that unknowingly boost me through my talk. No, I don't always remember what they look like or where they sat. And no, I'm not always that nervous when I speak. But it's only natural to be affected by your audience.
All this to say, I encourage you to consider your role when you're not the one on stage.
Even when the presentation is boring, or you're preoccupied, or haven't had enough sleep. Remember that the presenter might be nervous, or inexperienced. Or perhaps they're speaking in a second language, an additionally daunting task.
Whatever the case may be, here are some easy ways to give the speaker a little boost:
Look at them
Smile
Nod
Answer questions
Ask questions
For virtual meetings, it also really helps to:
Turn your camera on
Face your camera
In my experience, speakers do better when they receive these simple cues.
For example, in my workshops.
It's not easy to present in front of the group, especially with such little prep. But even the most timid speakers do it, and do it well, because the group is so supportive. No one's ignoring questions, or yawning, or scrolling on their phones. Instead, they're completely engaged and encouraging.
I know you can't always be that fabulous audience member...especially for a not-so-fabulous presentation. But with a little boost from you, it could end up to be a great one.
Now that's a win-win situation!
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